Recentemente ho ricevuto una chiamata inaspettata da uno dei miei ex coach che mi ha proposto una collaborazione per un progetto che sta portando avanti da mesi.
Sono rimasto sorpreso e lusingato; non capita spesso di ricevere proposte così interessanti.
Entrando nel dettaglio del progetto, ho provato un mix di eccitazione per l’idea di una nuova avventura e un leggero senso di colpa.
Al momento, purtroppo, non sono disponibile per dedicargli il tempo che merita. Tra impegni lavorativi e familiari, sarebbe un rischio che non posso correre.
Mentre ci avviciniamo al momento cruciale della mia risposta, mi sentivo teso, infastidito. Non era quello il momento giusto, avevo troppo per la testa, non volevo deludere la sua fiducia, né tantomeno chiudere la porta ad una bella opportunità… ma avrei dovuto dirgli di no.
Ed ecco che il mio coach, ha concluso con sagge parole:
“Capisco che sia una decisione importante, prenditi il tempo che ti serve. Qualunque scelta farai, va bene. Se non ti senti pronto ora, va bene lo stesso. Nulla di personale.”
Queste semplici parole finali mi hanno immediatamente:
- liberato dal senso di colpa di dire no
- offerto una via d’uscita rispettosa, evitando vaghe risposte, e
- ha ridotto la possibilità di non ricevere alcuna risposta, cosa che reputo la peggiore delle opzioni.
Questo mi ha fatto riflettere su quante volte ci troviamo nella situazione di non ricevere risposte alle nostre richieste.
E se fosse che mettiamo troppo peso sulle spalle di chi “dovrebbe” rispondere ?
Una via d’uscita come questa “qualunque scelta tu farai va bene……….. Puoi anche dire di no fai la tua scelta, nulla di personale” ..
ha fatto la differenza per me.
Potrebbe farla anche per te?
Hai mai considerato di offrire una valida via di uscita a chi stai chiedendo?
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